when i first started wedding planning, i had grand ideas of doing everything DIY crafty style. well that didn’t work out. turns out a lot of the “easy” looking things i wanted to do took a lot of practice to make look easy! materials were expensive, crafts took a lot of time, and there were just so many great ideas out there! but that research turned me on to the world of crafting in general. i discovered websites and blogs dedicated to the creative, which i have never really been. suddenly i was filled with inspiration and would spend weeks at a time drooling over sites like Craftgossip, How About Orange, and Attack of the Craft. sometimes i would (and still do) spend days at a time browsing the awesome creativity and artistic crafts available on Etsy. before i knew what was happening, i was collecting Michael’s and Joann’s coupons and eagerly waiting for the weekly ads and flyers. at the same time, my best friend was getting into costuming and fabrics. she introduced me to the wonder of fabrics – patterns vs. solids, textures, uses – patterns, and sewing. i was inspired to give in to my creative-wannabe side and try my hand at some small simple crafts.
while my DIY wedding plans did not pay off, i did manage to put together a couple of items in time. first, there were the YAY! OOT! OMG! flags that i wanted used in place of rice or seeds. much less mess and with the little bells, who can resist a jingle! i pilfered chopsticks from the cafeteria at work that summer until i had enough to make a flag for every guest invited, regardless of how many showed. even my students were snagging extra chopstick packs and sneaking them into my purse just to help out with the wedding. those rare moments when you can love the hearts of teenagers. i still have a few dozen chopsticks left! using both Adobe Photoshop and Adobe Illustrator (putting lessons learned in my master’s program to work for me!) i created the castle and text flags which i printed onto white and red construction paper from the dollar store. i hot glued the paper to the sticks, tied and curled ribbon to the top, and attached a bell or two depending on the size i had available. even though no body ended up using them, i was still really proud of how they turned out! and let me tell you, they look simple, but they were kind of a pain in the ass! thank you to my photographer, Josh Rodriguez, for taking this picture and making them look so much more amazing than they did sitting on my bookshelf in a cleaned out spinach dip container! my inspiration for this craft came from this post on Offbeat Bride.
another bit of craftiness that panned out much to my great joy were the guestbook cards. i decided i didn’t want a typical guest book. so my mom gave me a red velvety photo album she’d been holding onto for years but had never gotten around to using. i used shiny glittery cardstock i bought at a craft store (with coupon of course) for the guest card inserts. the best part was i didn’t realize they were glittery until AFTER i had printed and cut them! bonus!! again i used either or both Adobe Photoshop and Illustrator, along with some free internet clip art, to create the monogram in the bottom corner along with our wedding date, and the lined border. though not seen in the picture, there were red, white, and off-white cards. we had a whole container of gel pens lying around the house so we set those out as well. unfortunately, i forget to have the venue put out the instruction for the cards (fill out, stick in photo pocket… should seem easy right?) so i only ended up with about 12-18 cards because a lot of the guests were very “old school” and were confused as to what the cards were for.
a very simple idea i had, that unfortunately i did not get a picture of before the ceremony, was the flower girl basket. i used a sturdy, retangle wicker basket of my mom’s to wrap a red satin ribbon around – glued down in a couple of spots for stability – then clipped a black rose hair flower that i had in a drawer in my room. it looked adorable, especially with all of the red roses laying in it for our expert flower girl to pass out. unfortunately the flower fell off, the ribbon didn’t stay glued up all the way around, and the venue ended up not returning the flower to us at all! but our flower girl looked adorable carrying the rustic basket anyway! she rocked it!
in the last minute, i decided to make reserved table signs for the family tables and place cards for those two tables as well. i didn’t want to deal with the hassle of seating arrangements so i wasn’t going to do any at all! but my dad is one of those big softies that wants to please everyone and not let anyone feel left out or slighted. he kept trying to seat everyone at their table to honor them or prevent them from possibly sitting with people they didn’t really know. well the tables weren’t THAT big and you really can’t please everyone! so i came up with a solution: there would be two head tables (aside from the bridal party table) which would be reserved for immediate family only. parents and siblings (along with their spouses and children) only. to me that made the most sense. dad was okay with this compromise because it meant that no one friend was being told that they were less valued than another. and who couldn’t understand family being placed in spots of honor above all others?? even our friends had to fend for themselves! using 5×7 photo paper and, of course, Adobe PS and ILL, i created and printed these reservation signs. also using blank business cards (which i had left over from the invitation inserts telling out of town guests where they could reserve a room and find transportation for the weekend), and my old standby image editing programs, i created and printed the name place cards which were based off of the reservation sign design. however, i embellished them by punching two holes in the top and threading thin red ribbon through which i tied in a bow and glued down for stability. they were adorable… trust me! i’m not prejudice or anything!
lastly, though actually made first, and not actually used in the wedding itself, was my RSVP box. i wanted a place where i could keep all of my RSVPs in one safe place. but i wanted this container to really stand out as being related to the wedding. i didn’t want to buy a box, after all, i was being crafty! so i decided i could use some items around the house and a trip to the dollar store to make something special just for myself. i found a large shoe box and covered it in a wedding-style wrapping paper i found at the dollar store. i pretty much wrapped it like a gift box without a lid, then wrapped the lid separately. i then glued a red satin ribbon, that i had already discovered matched the red in my dress, around the lid. next i made a flower out of some tulle and a button that i had in my scraps and glued that to the ribbon. using a blank business card, i printed the label (again designed using Adobe Photoshop and/or Illustrator) and glued it on (wish i hadn’t permanently attached it now!) viola! RSVP storage box! i still have the box and now am using it to temporarily house all of the wonderful, beautiful, thoughtful cards we received until i can find another way to store and display them.
i chose to end this post with what, in reality, was my first wedding craft project for a specific reason. SEGWAY! that little tulle flower has led to the start of something beautiful. i discovered so many tutorials for so many different kinds of fabric flowers that now i find myself becoming somewhat of a monster! i LOVE making flowers for brooches, hair pins, hair bands, and other embellishments. so my next post will be all about those i have made since becoming a lawfully wedded zombie 🙂 hopefully they will lead to my very own Etsy shop… the next step in my crafting evolution!